Mouth off

(Late posting)

I've always known that the mouth speaks what the heart is full of.  Yet I was reminded of it today after learning that somebody cursed in public.

This person was reprimanded by a superior and, perhaps out of rage, uttered the ever popular Filipino vulgar word putangina in front of several staffers. I felt pity more than shame for what he did. Not only did he create a negative impression for the team, he also revealed his level of professionalism and temperament. Yet, admittedly, he prompted me to be more careful with my actions and cautious with my words.

What we say is not only about what we feel towards something or someone.  I’ve come to understand that what comes out of our mouth is more of a reflection of our personality. It is an extension of our character, of what we are capable of doing, of our intelligence and ability to adapt in different circumstances. Truly, words are powerful. And once it’s said, it cannot be taken back. Words can build friendship but it can also create enemies.  Words boost morale yet can discourage a spirit.

Today’s incident was a learning experience for me. It is important to consider our words well. Sure, we can joke around and yell and say sentiments out loud.  But before we do that, we might want to consider the people around us and think of the possible consequences.